Thursday, April 22, 2010

ermmm really?

你我曾经深爱过的某人,无非也就是芸芸众生中的一个,只是爱由心生,自以为他/她会是今生最爱,当你感觉你爱她,你用心去爱就觉的他/她最珍贵,当万物归原,生命仍然继续,他/她无非也就是我们生命中的一个过客。

我们根本无法确定哪一个才是今生最爱,如果不懂得去珍惜,你身边这个爱你的/你爱的人,在某一天,也会成为你身边的过客。

找一个你爱的人不容易,找一个爱你的人也不容易。如果无法确定哪一个才是你最爱的人,何不在自己成为别人的爱人的时候珍惜这份感情?爱由心生,你告诉自己是爱他/她的,自然就可以爱上他/她。

如果你爱的人不爱你,也请记得:爱由心生。是你太过于把目光集中在他/她身上了,试着放开视线焦点,你会发现光亮的蜡烛到处都有。

爱与不爱,无非也就是在一念之间。

过去的事情过去的爱情,就让它过去吧,那只是我们生命的一部分,只是茫茫大海中的一滴水珠,只是漫漫苍弩中的一粒微尘。没有那些过去,也不会造就现在的你我。

珍惜当前,永远胜于三心二意

Monday, March 29, 2010

Job or Career

Job: a person's regular paid employment
Career: one's professional life; one's progress in one's job


Job - Provide Stability, Provide income, Life is to be enjoyed outside work,Responsibilities defined & Safe.

Career- Provide Flexibility,Provide satisfaction, Makes life enjoyable,Requires initiative, Encourages risk taking

so are you looking for a job or a career?

Saturday, February 14, 2009

valentine's day

so, what do you do during valentine's day?

you say :"i love you" to your partner?
( why only say it on that day, or you actually realize you only love her or him on this day but not other day or if you say it on valentine's day it actually means more)

you buy a present for him/her
( but you still buy her gift even is not valentine? so what so special about valentine's gift)

you buy her flower
(why cant i give her flower next week? the flowers are more expensive during valentine's)

you bring her out for a special dinner
( izit mean that other days you dont need to bring her out for dinner)

so why do you celebrate valentine's day? is there any other reason other than because everyone else celebrate it. if ur partner only show his or her love during valentine's day, then i think you better start looking for another person to celebrate with you next year.

i wonder who is the smart fella who created this occasion. may be it is not suppose to celebrate this way. may be it suppose to be like the chinese valentine's day where you go to the river"throw" oranges to get a partner. so valentine's day is actually for people who look for the other half rather than for the people who already have a partner.

from what i observed, i think it is too commercialize. the roses in the world suddenly become so precious and expensive. the chocolates, the wrapping paper and the teddy bear also suddenly become more expensive. the sweetness of the chocolate still remain the same, the size of the wrapping paper and bears are also the same. why it needs to be more expensive? people just celebrate it because they have to not because they want to but actually do we need to? some people even feel depress when thats no one to celebrate with them.

so ah, if you really want to celebrate it, after this week you better buy the rose seed( grow it now) then plan for ur next valentine's gift. buy it in advance, then you can save alot of money d.

you can say because i am single and not in love so i cant understand, in fact i really dont understand. so pls educate me and share with us if you understand.
if you are in love , what so special about 14 of feb, everyday should be a happy valentine's day!

p/s this is just some random thought, dont get offenced if you do celebrate it. is definitely legal to do so haha. do enjoy if you celebrate it, and dont be sad if you are not.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

HAPPY NEW YEAR



祝您
一帆风顺
二龙腾飞
三羊开泰
四季平安
五福临门
六六大顺
七星高照
八方来财
九九同心
十全十美
百事可乐
千事吉祥
万事如意!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

SHOCK

it has been a long time since the last time i log in to friendster. i don't know why i log in yesterday and i saw a message about one of my friend from kelantan passed away few days ago! what a bad and shock news. she is just 19. she was my "junior" in xue hai. she is a really sweet and nice girl. although i am a medical student, i still cant accept the fact that life is so unpredictable. when this kind of thing happen to people around you, whatever things that i learn in medical school regarding breaking bad news, death and bereavement, palliative care, end of life arrangement are just not applicable.

live your life to the fullness. do not delay to the next day! who knows you might not even have the next day.

dear angeline, rest in peace...........


(吉蘭丹‧哥打峇魯)《星洲日報》東海岸區《學海》聯誼會,吉蘭丹小站第15屆學生記者賴嘉琪(19歲)腦部積水進行手術後昏迷10天,週四(12月4日)上午約7時宣告不治,中午送往萬縣的保利莫火化場焚化往生,眾學記淚眼相送。

根据《星洲日報》向家屬進一步瞭解,嘉琪是因為先天性心臟有孔而影響腦部積血和積水。

醫生25日宣佈腦死

嘉琪於11月23日轉院至古邦閣亮理科醫院後昏倒在病床上,隨即進行腦部手術,惟不幸的是,醫生於25日宣佈嘉琪已經腦死。

嘉琪是週四上午約7時宣告不治,其親友包括《星洲日報》哥打峇魯辦事處主任洪維聰、東海岸區《學海》聯誼會,吉蘭丹小站負責人羅水萍及學記們都前往送別。

嘉琪一年前在首都某私人學院就讀,並在男友雙親開辦的律師樓幫忙。

活躍學記隊人緣佳

是日,其男友及雙親都到場送嘉琪最後一程,現場一片哀傷。

進行火化後,其家人將安排把嘉琪的骨灰置放在父親的靈位旁,賴父是數年前因病逝世。

在學記隊裡,嘉琪一直非常活躍,而且人緣极佳,學記們獲悉她的情況,都特地前來丹州探訪。

對於嘉琪,學記們一直為她加油打气,儘管在這一刻,嘉琪還是离開了大家。

Saturday, November 29, 2008

sane or insane?

醫科生精神問題嚴重衛生總監揭每月至少5案例

(吉隆坡)是壓力,抑或競爭激烈所致;馬來西亞醫藥理事會每個月收到至少5名醫學系學生精神出現問題的案例投報。

衛生總監丹斯里依斯邁今日(週六,1129日)作這項披露時,呼吁大專學府關注醫學系學生的精神狀況問題。

衛生總監感痛心

我作為醫藥理事會主席,在每個常月會議中,發現至少有5宗精神出問題的案例呈交給醫藥檢討小組,我對此感到痛心。所有醫學院必須謹慎和仔細遴選學生,僅僅以成績來選學生是不足夠的。

依斯邁週六在訓練未來的醫生:我們做對了嗎?研討會上發表主題演講時說:一個面試是否就能選出適合的醫學系學生?學生是因為個人抱負,還是因為父母的期望才報讀醫學系?

他們(學生)已經準備好勤勉工作,而且還是長時間工作,甚至必須犧牲他們的種種生活樂趣?他們是否有精力去走這條既長且艱辛的路程?

他們又是否經得起作為醫學系學生和過後成為醫生,在醫學教育上所帶來的壓力和激烈的競爭?

依斯邁指出,他提出這種種問題,原因是在醫藥檢討小組中,就已經看到和收到很多醫學系學生和實習醫生有精神問題的案例。

他說,如果醫學系學生出現精神問題,應該嘗試去治癒它,因為在面試成為正式醫生時,精神狀況將是重要的考量因素。

星洲日報‧2008.11.29

am i still sane, if anyone at anytime suspected i am psychotic pls let me know k ahaha.

Monday, November 17, 2008

exam.....

4 more weeks to go!

i definitely do not have the quality or ability or determination to be a nerd.
or i am just simply lazy.

started to hibernate even is not winter.

when you wake up, you will then realize you are a day nearer to your exam or it also means that you will be free from suffering very soon.

two ways to interprete it

1)because when you fail your exam, that's it!
can start packing and balik kampung and have a "good , long rest" or may be rest in peace- so considered free from sufferring

2) you did really well, no need to suffer anymore( temporarily) and can enjoy your christmas break.

so short term or long term relieve?

i don't know, but by judging the way i am studying now, i think i will have a long term free from suffering soon.